Tea Ceremony - when to?

If you want a Chinese wedding tea ceremony but is concerned about the time, such as when J and T asked me about their lunch reception, they had estimated guest arrival time at 10:30am and the luncheon was to finish around 4:30pm. Their question was: “Would we have enough time to do a tea ceremony on the day?”

The tea ceremony is a beautiful tradition that can add a meaningful touch to your celebration, and there are several ways we can integrate the tea ceremony seamlessly into your schedule. Depending on the intensity of tradition you prefer, we can arrange for it to take place either at home or at the venue. Here are some options to consider:

1. At the Venue: We can schedule the tea ceremony in between the ceremony and reception or even before the ceremony itself. I've included some suggested times in the attached runsheet for your reference. The timing will ultimately depend on various factors as we plan together.

2. Simplified Ceremony at the Venue: For couples opting for a more streamlined approach, a simplified tea ceremony can be conducted at the venue, perhaps as part of the 'thank the parents' segment in the marriage ceremony. This is ideal for serving tea to parents and can be witnessed by guests.

3. Elaborate Traditional Ceremony: If you envision a more elaborate traditional tea ceremony, we can arrange for it to be hosted at home, either early in the morning or between the ceremony and reception. This option allows for a deeper immersion into the cultural significance of the ritual.

I believe that designing a realistic and personalised schedule is crucial for ensuring a smooth flow on the couple’s big day, so I can serve as a sounding board and better understand the preferences. By being involved in the planning process, I can tailor my assistance to their specific needs and ensure everything runs seamlessly on the day. So if you are currently planning your big day, and not too sure about how to integrate the tea ceremony, send me an email or reach out to me via my IG!